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A yoruba adage says “egba ta fi no iyale lana onmbe laja fun iyawo”. (Forgive my spellings). This means the cane used on the 1st wife is hidden and would def be used on the second wife. The same thing that happened to the former can definitely happen to the latter
Some of us (girls) are happy when we hear your”to be” boyfriend dumps his girlfriend for you*sad*. But you’d soon realise the trouble in it. The I love you he’s telling you now he must have probably told that someone he dumped. The things he’s doing now he must have done before so don’t be feeling like A superstar when he’s dumping his girlfriend for you.

This is how it is he saw you said he liked you and you’re off dating him and being all romantic with him. He claims he stopped loving his ex and you are the “new found one”. And your love was sent from heaven. This is a big trick and it gets most of us all the time. Even guys fall for this. Instead of dating him, help him solve the issues he has with her.
Another aspect I’d like to touch is allowing your “supposed” friend make you break up with your boyfriend/girlfriend only to end up dating him/her.

Another yoruba adage says: gbo gbo alangba lo da ikun de ile a ko month eti inu run(lizards walk with their bellys on the floor so it’s hard to know which has a stomach upset)
This is another tric which works. He/she makes you feel he’s trying to help but in the process acts like a saint and then makes you sEe the faults (unconsciously) in your boyfriend and then you break up with him and start dating them.

Believe me only if his/her intentions were truly pure the relationship wouldn’t last.

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A yoruba adage says “egba ta fi no iyale lana oun be laja fun iyawo”. (Forgive my spellings). This means the cane used on the 1st wife is hidden and would definitely be used on the second wife. The same thing that happened to the former can definitely happen to the latter
Some of us (girls) are happy when we hear your”to be” boyfriend dumps his girlfriend for you*sad*. But you’d soon realise the trouble in it. The I love you he’s telling you now he must have probably told that someone he dumped. The things he’s doing now he must have done before so don’t be feeling like A superstar when he’s dumping his girlfriend for you.

This is how it is he saw you said he liked you and you’re off dating him and being all romantic with him. He claims he stopped loving his ex and you are the “new found one”. And your love was sent from heaven. This is a big trick and it gets most of us all the time. Even guys fall for this. Instead of dating him, help him solve the issues he has with her.
Another aspect I’d like to touch is allowing your “supposed” friend make you break up with your boyfriend/girlfriend only to end up dating him/her.

Another yoruba adage says: gbo gbo alangba lo da ikun de ile a ko mo eyu ti inu run(lizards walk with their bellys on the floor so it’s hard to know which has a stomach upset)
This is another tric which works. He/she makes you feel he’s trying to help but in the process acts like a saint and then makes you se the faults (unconsciously) in your boyfriend and then you break up with him and start dating them.

Believe me only if his/her intentions were truly pure the relationship wouldn’t last.

Let’s all be wise.